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Co-Parent Coaching

Co-Parent Coaching | Support for Divorced & Separating Parents

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Compassionate co-parent coaching for divorced and separating parents who

want to reduce conflict, protect their kids, and build a more stable, respectful two-home family. Virtual sessions available.

Build a more stable, predictable two-home life for your kids

Co-parent coaching gives you a neutral, skilled guide to help you and your co-parent:​

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  • Reduce conflict and emotional reactivity

  • Communicate more effectively (even if you barely speak now)

  • Make child-centered decisions that feel fair and sustainable

You don’t have to figure this out alone.

Is Co-Parent Coaching right for you?

This work is for you if:

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  • You’re newly separated or in the middle of a divorce and want a calmer, more respectful process.

  • You’re stuck in arguments about schedules, holidays, or money and can’t seem to find common ground.

  • One or both of you tend to shut down, lash out, or avoid hard conversations.

  • You want to protect your kids from conflict—but old patterns keep pulling you back in.

  • You know the parenting plan on paper is one thing… actually living it out is another.

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You don’t have to be “on the same page” to start.
You just need a shared commitment: We want to do better for our kids.

Good News / Bad News:

You’re no longer in a spouse relationship…
But as Co-Parents, you will need to communicate more often (initially)
and more effectively than when you were together.

A Future-Focused Pathway for You and Your Co-Parent

Through our collaborative coaching experience, you will identify what works, where you get stuck, and how to respond differently when things heat up.

 

You will:

  • Clarify what kind of co-parent you want to be—and how that shapes daily choices

  • Understand your patterns (fight, flight, fix, freeze) and how they play out with your co-parent

  • Learn communication tools for de-escalating conflict in email, text, and live conversations

  • Develop child-centered agreements around schedules, transitions, holidays, and special events

  • Create strategies for staying grounded when your co-parent is triggered, critical, or avoidant

  • Build confidence in your ability to hold boundaries and stay out of unnecessary battles

  • Practice repeatable skills so you’re not starting from scratch every time something goes wrong.

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In our sessions, we focus on:

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  • Communication & Conflict De-Escalation

    • How to send texts and emails that don’t blow up

    • What to say (and not say) when you are triggered

    • How to pause, reset, and re-enter a tough conversation

  • Parenting Plan & Transitions

    • Crafting age-appropriate schedules

    • Managing transitions between homes

    • Vacations, holidays, and special events

    • Your quarterly business meeting

  • Kids’ Emotional Needs

    • Supporting kids who are anxious, angry, or shutting down

    • Talking to children about the separation in developmentally appropriate ways

    • Keeping kids out of the middle and away from adult topics

  • Two-Home Family Logistics

    • House rules and expectations in each of their homes

    • School communication and activities

    • How to handle money-related stress without fighting in front of the kids

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Co-Parent Coaching helps you turn emotional chaos into a more navigable map for your two-home family. We focus on real-life moments—exchanges, hand-offs, school decisions, holidays—and translate them into repeatable skills and agreements you can actually use.

This is not about being perfect.It’s about building enough stability that your kids feel:“Both my parents love me. The grown-ups are figuring it out.”

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